I was talking to a friend of mine the other day. She wanted to know when there was a breather with her child...when could they just be and not have to do doctors, diaper rash, eating issues, etc. I totally understand that. In fact, I think the one piece of advice I have for people who decide to have a baby is. "it is always something." It is. When you have children, there is always something to respond to, deal with, take care of, etc. Parenting does not necessarily get easier...it is just different with every stage and you learn to handle things better (sort of).
So hang in there. We have all gone through it. Just because you get stressed or think, "will this end?", does not mean you do not love you child any less. We all love our children, but it is very stressful at times. That is why I encourage all parents, especially women, to talk about their experiences and share. This help make you feel less crazy! Because having kids is a CRAZY thing!! ;-)
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
My trip!
I got the privilege of flying with a breast pump. It is an interesting story I will tell later...I am too tired now. I just wanted to get you thinking on it to build the story. It is obviously not too exciting - I did not end up on MSNBC!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
I am not sure how I feel about this...
Story from ABC News.
On one hand, why not? But on the other, I would not want anyone else breast feeding my kid! Of course, we don't live in a third world country. I do believe people here in the US have VERY distorted perceptions of breast feeding. I think it is mostly b/c we are such a sexualized society and that is the most common way breasts are viewed. Sad...I have thoroughly enjoyed breast feeding Brodie this long!!
On one hand, why not? But on the other, I would not want anyone else breast feeding my kid! Of course, we don't live in a third world country. I do believe people here in the US have VERY distorted perceptions of breast feeding. I think it is mostly b/c we are such a sexualized society and that is the most common way breasts are viewed. Sad...I have thoroughly enjoyed breast feeding Brodie this long!!
Saturday, February 7, 2009
More generic
Gerber stage 2 baby food sucks. Actually, Brodie likes it and I will feed it to him, but it is really runny and falls off the spoon. Beechnut is my favorite, but sometimes it is not the most cost effective. The brand that Wal-Mart sells with the Pooh bear on it is the best.
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
American Baby
I received the new American Baby magazine in the mail today. I am always amazed at the information that is included in these baby magazines. Nine times out of ten, it is a load of you know what. Sometimes I wonder who reads these magazines for hardcore information. I hope no one - I read for supplementary information at best!
This issue had an expose' entitled "What's It Worth To You?" This was by far the silliest thing I have ever read. It started out ok, discussing baby bodysuits. Then it got a little out of control. $930 for a stroller? The cheapest baby bedding set was $180! Seriously, they puke, pee and poop in their beds. I highchair for $300 and a diaper bag for $640. Sign me up for two of each!!
Has anyone ever stopped to think these are babies? Your first priority should be their safety, then comfort, then style. Manufactures play on women's emotions so bad with this stuff, because so many times we equate expensive with the best. Folks, that is just not always the case. Remember - most all baby items are regulated and can only be sold if they pass safety tests. Don't get sucked into this marketing scam!!
Besides, if you start having to buy your baby the best of everything, it sets a president for things to come. Kids grow up no matter what - their happiness is the only thing that matters, not what car seat they puke in!!!
This issue had an expose' entitled "What's It Worth To You?" This was by far the silliest thing I have ever read. It started out ok, discussing baby bodysuits. Then it got a little out of control. $930 for a stroller? The cheapest baby bedding set was $180! Seriously, they puke, pee and poop in their beds. I highchair for $300 and a diaper bag for $640. Sign me up for two of each!!
Has anyone ever stopped to think these are babies? Your first priority should be their safety, then comfort, then style. Manufactures play on women's emotions so bad with this stuff, because so many times we equate expensive with the best. Folks, that is just not always the case. Remember - most all baby items are regulated and can only be sold if they pass safety tests. Don't get sucked into this marketing scam!!
Besides, if you start having to buy your baby the best of everything, it sets a president for things to come. Kids grow up no matter what - their happiness is the only thing that matters, not what car seat they puke in!!!
Saturday, January 31, 2009
I have mixed emotions about this article. While I would LOVE to have my Mom around, she raised her children and I would NEVER expect her to raise mine. This article talks about how a women paid someone to pick her kids up from school and babysit them till she got home from work. Yes, that is what most of us do. They are called grandchildren for a reason. My husband was raised by his grandparents and I am very thankful for that. I believe it made him who is today.
I think it goes back to what I was discussing with a friend yesterday. People have issues with taking responsibility for things now days. Whether is admitting you messed up or raising your child...
I think it goes back to what I was discussing with a friend yesterday. People have issues with taking responsibility for things now days. Whether is admitting you messed up or raising your child...
Friday, January 30, 2009
Idiot!!
Read this
I don't condone thinning out the number when multiple babies are involved, but since you had a problem getting pregnant the first place and got 6 kids the first time through fertility treatments, don't you think maybe you would stop there? The article said she was "young" and "lived with her parents". Again, Idiot!!!
I don't condone thinning out the number when multiple babies are involved, but since you had a problem getting pregnant the first place and got 6 kids the first time through fertility treatments, don't you think maybe you would stop there? The article said she was "young" and "lived with her parents". Again, Idiot!!!
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